I get emails all the time from guys asking whether they can get their ex-girlfriends back by using pheromones. Let me begin by saying that I have used pheromones for this purpose. And while they helped, they didn’t do it all on their own…
What pheromones WILL do however, is get you an “in” – a possible chance to make her rethink her decision.
And as long as you have your game face on through the situation you CAN put the odds back in your favor.
We’ll get to the pheromones in a sec, but first you MUST pay attention to the most important part… YOU!
When my girlfriend broke up with me earlier this year, we had gone through a roller coaster of emotions.
I won’t get into the details, but I will say that I became somewhat complacent, and didn’t pay as much attention to her as I should have.
We had a nasty falling out, and it really did seem like the end of the road for our friendship and relationship.
Yeah, I did want it back, but the more I tried, the more I failed.
I decided to stop contacting her, figure out what went wrong, fix them, and try again later.
I got busy working on myself. I took up interest in dance, boxing, and even did some self improvement stuff (public speaking to build confidence and communication skills).
I pushed the thoughts of my ex to the back of my head, and got busy inserting myself into nightclubs and approaching strangers (especially good looking females :).
As someone who is interested in self improvement, I’m always looking for ways to push my comfort zone.
That’s what gives me confidence and makes me happy.
Soon enough she was asking to hang out, and stayed in touch more often.
Even though there were some extremely fiery arguments in the mean time, we managed to work our way back to being intimate. Then came the renewed emotional attachment.
And shortly after, being officially “together” again.
If you too want to get your ex girlfriend back, you must follow a set of strict rules and change the way you think right now.
You see, most people think the idea is to “get your ex girlfriend back” – WRONG! What you should actually be doing is “making your ex girlfriend WANT you back”.
In other words, you need to get her chasing YOU.
That’s the uphill battle you’re going to have to fight – but its definitely not as hard as you think it is.
Guys have a tendency to blow things out of proportion when ego gets involved, and getting your ex girlfriend back is not as impossible as it may seem right now.
There is a huge difference when you try to “force” your ex girlfriend to be with you again, and them WANTING to be with you again.
You might even succeed in somehow coercing your ex girlfriend to be with you, but the cracks will appear again and you’ll go through the break up again.
With that said, how exactly do you make your ex girlfriend want you back?
Step 1: Stop contacting her and figure out what went wrong
Think really hard about this one. Usually there were signs that a break up was coming. Your ex girlfriend probably brought these things up and you didn’t do anything about it. Be completely honest with yourself.
Did you let bad behaviour slide? Did you stop being who she was attracted to in the first place? What did you start doing different when you got into the relationship?
If you’re like a lot of guys, you probably got lazier and tried less hard to keep your girl interested. Maybe you lost interest in your hobbies, your passion for life died a little, your energy got dissipated into your relationship when it should have gone towards improving yourself as a person.
When you grow as a person, your relationship also grows and progresses (I personally think this is the #1 threat to relationships ending).
Relationships seem to stall when you’re not making progress on yourself, as well as together. Having new experiences to bond you to eachother, and things to work on as a couple improve cohesion and that’s what keeps couples together.
Whatever reasons you came up with, it’s time to get to work on removing them, and replacing them with better thoughts and actions.
2. Start getting busy in your own life and try your best to get over your ex (temporarily at the very least)
Yeah, I know – break ups can be a huge blow to your ego and it takes time to recover.
I know the feelings of hurt, loneliness, jealousy, and all that going through your head.
But trust me when I say this… women are FICKLE and can change like a light switch on you.
And you can turn it on in your favor too.
You must believe that you can get her back. And even if you can’t, that you’ll have other women interested in you.
Breaking up and getting back together have a very counter productive methodology as you read from my story.
Most guys would have bent over backwards, begged, and got on their knees for their ex girlfriends… but this is the main reason why women go running the other direction.
You must PROVE that you are a rock and can handle things that come your way.
Its why some couples get back together and others don’t. If your ex contacts you, act like she doesn’t really matter anymore and that you’re happy… even if you aren’t!
From this point on, you have to force yourself to get out of your head and thinking about what happened.
Here is a list of things you can do to let off some steam and improve yourself.
- Read this article. It’s got tons of mini-tips that will help you out.
- Hit the weights and use your frustration, anger, and other negative emotions you have as fuel to smash your gym goals. Oh yeah, did I mention women like muscles?
- Take up hobbies such as boxing, martial arts, dance, or anything you find interesting. Getting lost in your hobbies are a great way to take your mind off the break up.
- Get socially active. Hit up your old friends, go to the bar, nightclubs, and approach women. Try and get some dates! Hey, if you can do this, it’ll be a lot easier to get your ex girlfriend back. It will give you the confidence you need to feel attractive and naturally exhibit attractive behaviour. If she finds out you’re over her and someone hints that you’re dating already, this could be enough to drive her back to you.
- Do self improvement activities like public speaking. You will not believe the amount of confidence you’ll have after you become a great communicator (it helps in all areas of your life, not just when you need to give a speech). Find your local toastmasters club and sign up – its super cheap and it will benefit you HUGELY.
Fill up your calender with cool, fun, interesting things you want to do.
I don’t care if you don’t FEEL like doing these activities. If you want to get your ex-girlfriend back, you need to do them.
The reason is because when you start doing them, you’ll FORCE your brain to stop thinking about the break up, and focus on the activities at hand.
I know it’s easier said than done, but being shitty isn’t going to help you get your ex girlfriend back.
Suck it up and do them for a few weeks and TELL me you don’t feel a million times better.
3. NOW you can think about using pheromones to help get your ex girlfriend back
Okay, so you’ve done some self analysis and self improvements. Boosted your confidence, taken your mind off the negativity, and got your zest for life back.
Like I said before, you had to sort out your emotional health before even thinking of using pheromones to get your ex girlfriend back.
After a break up, I suggest keeping it cool and light when meeting up with your ex-girlfriend.
Here are some products that help convey the right image to get your ex chasing you again.
- XiSt + Love Boat by PheromoneXS. One of my favorite products. XiSt was specifically designed to help guys who have been “friendzoned” escape. But it’s very versatile, and helps restore romance and intimacy in relationships – including broken ones. Love Boat can help to speed up the slow building effect of xiSt. PheromoneXS also offers single molecules like XSR32 which can help ramp up its “reset effect”. Contact me for custom combinations.
- Nude Alpha by Liquid Alchemy Labs + Androstadienone. Nude Alpha is one of my favorite products that creates deep emotional attachments in women. I’d recommend this for intermediate/advanced users, because Nude Alpha requires some skill to use right. It’s a product that requires you to be a certain way so women will chase you – including your ex girlfriend. If you think you can handle it, give it a go on some other women until you figure it out! (Note: you can also order Androstadienone from Liquid Alchemy Labs as a single molecule. I’d recommend using only 20-30mcgs at a time with Nude Alpha applications).
- Alfa Maschio + True Love. Alfa Maschio is a sexually aggressive type of product, but combined with True Love makes it “badass with a chance of winning him over”. The products together create an awesome vibe, if you can pull off the right attitude. Alpha Dream also offers other products such as “Corpo” if you are going to be running into her in a professional environment (where highly aggressive products may not be suitable).
- L2K by Alpha Dream. L2K is a very disinhibiting product and I’d recommend this if you ONLY care about getting physical with your ex. Its very comforting, and women somehow feel compelled to show you love and affection. L2K is notorious in the pheromone community for creating one night stands.
Note: The additions aren’t necessary, but can help increase the effectiveness of the main “driver” product.
4. What to do once you’ve done the mental and physical preparation
Once you have arranged to see your ex girlfriend, it’s important to remain cool, calm, and collected.
Act like it’s your first date. If serious topics come up, try to brush them off and have an unbothered attitude. You will use this time to set up other friendly dates where you can slowly work your way back into her mind.
You goal is to establish a mutual friendship where you will be able to work romance back into the friendship — remember, this is NOT the friendzone, because you’ve already crossed the line by being intimate.
You are just using this as a way to remain in her life so you can have another chance at romance.
While on your “friendly” dates, you should do several things:
- Remember to wear your pheromones, and have a practise on other women to make sure they’re working as they’re supposed to. Adjust your dosages so you can get maximum effect from them.
- Bring up positive moments you’ve shared together as a couple. You’ll start removing negative thoughts about you from her head, and start making her wonder what was so wrong in the first place.
- Use the “I love you” ladder. Give compliments that start with “I love…” her smile, her laugh, etc etc. Just DON’T directly say you love her, even if you do. This will make her run!
- Soon after making “I love” compliments, keeping it friendly, and bringing up moments in time where you were totally happy and connected as a couple, you’ll notice she starts showing you more affection as time goes by. Depending on how bad the break up was, it might take hours or days.
- From this point on, she is getting attached emotionally again, and you should start escalating physically. Do not rush or force it, or you may end up back at square one.
From there on, its up to you to make her believe she is missing out, and that her life was much better with you in it. The confidence and new attitude you bring from making your life more exciting should STICK with you. Because then you can remain positive with or without her.
Remember to put yourself first – women like men who like themselves. This automatically creates attractive, manly behaviour because you have goals and passions in life.
Use your new goals and passions and even get her involved in them – this will create an even stronger relationship and help you grow as a couple so you can prevent future break ups from happening.
Let’s wrap things up
Okay, so hopefully my mini guide here gave you some perspective on your break up and will help you get your ex
Writing an in depth guide is way beyond the scope of PheromonePro.com, but if you look around you’ll constantly see similar advice. Also, don’t listen to bad advice such as the “no contact” rule which is mainly for people who want to play a silly game with no plan, once their ex actually does contact them.
In the end, its really all the same – make your ex girlfriend want you back.
Take the steps above, and I GUARANTEE you’ll have a high success rate of getting your ex girlfriend back than just going “no contact” and hoping she begs to get back together.
As a man, you have power and it’s time to use that power to better yourself.
The worst case scenario is you’ll have become more attractive so you can start dating other hotter women, and then make her insanely jealous 🙂 I hope this report helps at least improve your chances to get your ex-girlfriend back.
Actually no, I take that back… if you followed my advice, you DID dramatically improve your chances (but not that it should matter, you’ve leveled up in all areas of your life, and you’ll be able to get better women anyway 🙂 ).
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